The compliment I almost ignored
Years ago, some former coworkers gave me the moniker “National Word Ambassador,” partly in jest but partly because the right words come to me so naturally.
At the time, I laughed it off. It sounded funny and reminded me of the rap group. I didn’t really think much of it. But when I reflect on my marketing communications career, writing has served me, and the organizations I’ve supported, remarkably well. And the interesting thing is I can’t even pinpoint a specific process for writing words that win. I don’t have a secret formula or a magical framework.
Communication, specifically writing, has simply always felt naturally to me.
It served me well in school. In fact, my mom was one of the first people to recognize my talent for writing and encouraged me to pursue it. That influence played a role in my decision to major in public relations. Later, when graduate school rolled around, I elected to write a thesis because it genuinely felt easier and more enjoyable than the alternative capstone projects.
Over the course of my career, I’ve literally written hundreds of press releases, blog articles, executive scripts, social media posts, website pages, and comms plans. I’ve spent decades helping people find the right words to build trust and inspire action.
This writing thing is simply something I can’t quit and probably never will.
What I’ve come to realize is we often discount the things that come most naturally to us. What feels effortless to one person may be difficult for another. The same is true for many gifts. Some people are better at building relationships, others are strong problem solvers, and some lead with vision.
For me, the gift has always been words. More specifically, it’s an ability to understand what someone is trying to say and help them communicate it in a way that connects with others. It’s the foundation upon which I’m building Authentic Impressions, and it continues to be one of the most valuable tools I have for helping business owners communicate clearly and connect with the audiences they serve.
Looking back, that nickname wasn’t really about words at all. It was acknowledgement of a gift I was too close to see for myself. Sometimes the things we are most inclined to dismiss are the very things we’re meant to contribute.
What’s a compliment you’ve received in the past that you’re able to more fully appreciate today?
